OUR
MISSION
kinkHEARTED is a platform that offers introduction workshops in various aspects of kink. Our mission is to provide a safe and inclusive space for individuals and their partners to explore and learn about kink and BDSM in a respectful and consensual manner.
We offer a range of workshops designed to help guide you and or your partner through the world of kink and connect from your heart with others. Whether you are a seasoned practitioner or new to the world of kink; kinkHEARTED is here to support and guide you on your journey of self-discovery and exploration in kink.
Our ethical statement:
We want to make it clear that there will never be any pressure to participate in activities that make you uncomfortable. You are welcome to attend the workshop and choose to keep your clothes on and refrain from touching others if that is your preference. Additionally, if at any point you feel uncomfortable or begin to have doubts during an exercise, you are free to skip it. Your comfort and consent are of the utmost importance to us. We will regularly check in with you during the exercises to ensure that what you are doing or receiving is still what you desire.
OUR
WORKSHOPS
CONNECTIVE BREATH: Breath in domination & submission
In this workshop, you will delve into the fascinating world of breath and power exchange dynamics. You will:
- Get a heightened awareness of your own breathing patterns
- Get a heightened awareness of your (play)partner’s breathing patterns
- Learn to observe and interpret breath
- Recognize changes in breathing patterns
- Feel what your partner needs through feeling their breath
- Learn to connect based on your partners breathing
- Learn to take care of your sub based on their breathing
We want to ensure that everyone feels safe and comfortable exploring their boundaries. We want to make it clear that this is not a breathplay (e.g. choking) workshop.
When to do this workshop
If any of the following reasons resonate with you:
- If you are interested in exploring the connection between breath, domination, and submission in a safe and consensual environment
- If you want to deepen your understanding of the intimate connection between breath, connection, and power exchange
- If you want to cultivate a heightened awareness of your partner’s breathing patterns and tailor your play to their needs
- If you want to use breath as a way to deepen connection
- You want to meet like-minded people
- You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
We find it important to provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Don’t come to our workshop if you are:
- not willing to respect other people’s boundaries
- not willing to create a safe and inclusive space
CONNECTIVE ROPES
In our Connective Rope workshop, you will dive into the art of slowing down with your (play)partner through the use of ropes. This workshop is not technical but rather focuses on the power of connection. You will learn how to drop your agenda and attune to your partner’s needs, desires, and responses, creating a deep sense of intimacy and trust. Through interactive exercises and discussions, you will discover the beauty of connecting through rope, and how it can enhance your play and presence.
Both single and partnered participants can join this workshop: singles will be teamed up, couples are welcome to stay together (but this is not mandatory)
During this workshop, we will:
- Explore how to slow down and connect with your (play)partner
- Discover the importance of dropping your agenda
- Explore ways to connect when using rope
- Have fun when using ropes
- Practice rope tying and connecting with your partner in a safe and consensual environment
When to do this workshop
- You are curious about exploring the art of connective ropes
- You want to learn how to create a deeper connection with your (play)partner
- You’re looking to meet like-minded people
- You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
We find it important to provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Please do not attend if you are not willing to respect other people’s boundaries or create a safe and inclusive space.
Rope: We will bring more than enough ropes to play with, but of course you are also welcome to bring/use your own ropes! Please bring a towel of blanket as well.
Allergies: Most of our rope is made hemp and washed many times. We do have jute rope on request.
Snacks/drinks: We will provide water, tea, sodas and snacks during the workshop.
Clothing: Please wear comfortable clothing that you would like to wear for a Connective Rope workshop. You do You!
Diversity: All human forms are welcome at our workshop: singles, couples, friends, trios, and individuals of all genders and sexual orientations. We embrace diversity and provide an inclusive space where everyone can feel comfortable, respected, and celebrated.
Community: After the workshop you will receive a link to our exclusive Telegram group. Here you will have the opportunity to connect with other participants of all kinkHEARTED workshops.
SADISTIC ROPES: Explore the art of sadistic Shibari
Dive into the world of Sadistic Rope, where shibari, pleasure and pain intertwine. In this workshop you’ll learn more about pain & pleasure when doing shibari.
*More about the workshop*
Here’s the outline of the evening:
– Welcome & Introduction
– Sadistic Rope without Knots: Discover the thrill of sadistic rope play without knots.
– Sadistic Rope with Knots: Ever heard of the “Toe Mountain” or the “Guatemalan” Calf-Shin Binder? Discover how to use Shibari knots for sadistic rope play.
– Closing & Aftercare
*When to do this workshop*
If any of the following reasons resonate with you:
– You are curious about exploring the art of sadistic rope
– You are curious about pain & pleasure
– You like to try out new things and play
– You’re looking to meet like-minded people
– You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
We find it important to provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Please do not attend if you are not willing to respect other people’s boundaries or create a safe and inclusive space.
PAIN & PLEASURE: Find pleasure in pain
In this workshop, you will explore the fascinating and complex relationship between pain and pleasure. You will:
- Explore the relationship between pain and pleasure
- Discover ways to find pleasure in pain
- Discover the masochist, sadist or sadomasochist in yourself
- Explore your boundaries and engage in self-discovery
- Explore how to enjoy giving and receiving pain safely
- Identify where pain becomes pleasurable for you
- Practice giving and receiving pain in a safe and consensual environment
We want to ensure that everyone feels safe and comfortable exploring their boundaries. We want to make it clear that the pain we work with in this workshop is limited to that which can only leave temporary marks. We will not be working with pain that involves piercing the skin, or any form of play that involves body fluids. Such as needle play, blood play, or any other activity that goes underneath the skin.
When to do this workshop
If any of the following reasons resonate with you:
- You are curious about exploring kink and BDSM in a safe and consensual environment
- You are curious to learn more about the relationship between pain & pleasure
- You are curious to discover more about how pain can bring you pleasure
- You want to broaden your BDSM / sexy skills
- You want to meet like-minded people
- You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
We find it important to provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Don’t come to our workshop if you are:
- not willing to respect other people’s boundaries
- not willing to create a safe and inclusive space
OUR
TEAM
BRI
Bri is a kink facilitator who loves the combination of pain and pleasure. Next to facilitating workshops, she is an experienced kinkster in various dynamics and has been spaceholder at a diverse collection of sex-positive and tantric events. Outside of that, she works as a strength sports coach and strongly believes in movement as medicine. One of her greatest motivations in work is teaching people how to use AND read their bodies – which comes back in her workshop facilitation as well.
NICO
Nico has over eight years of experience in various tantra schools and has a passion for BDSM, bodywork and Shibari. He is a kinkster that totally loves flogging. He is trained in non-violent communication and the proud father of two beautiful teenage boys. Nico is also a teacher who is passionate about helping young people reach their creative potential.
DROP
A LINE
Questions? Or even a complaint? Just let us know and we will get back at you.
FAQ
Time: Doors open 30 minutes before. Please be on time. Most locations don’t allow late acces.
Group: We try to keep the groups small. Often you can stay with you duo. We encourage to change things up. But it’s really up to your own preference.
Location:
Address:
Accessibility: Please let us know if you have accessibility needs or concerns.
What to wear: Please wear comfortable clothing that you can move in easily. Please bring a water bottle and a towel or blanket. We will provide all necessary equipment and materials for the workshop.
We will provide water, tea, and some snacks during the workshop.
Safety & consent
Our top priority is creating a safe and consensual environment for all participants. If you have any questions or concerns about the activities involved in this workshop, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us.
Do I have to do every exercise in a workshop?
We want to make it clear that there will never be any pressure to participate in activities that make you uncomfortable. You are welcome to attend the workshop and choose to keep your clothes on and refrain from touching others if that is your preference. Additionally, if at any point you feel uncomfortable or begin to have doubts during an exercise, you are free to skip it. Your comfort and consent are of the utmost importance to us. We will regularly check in with you during the exercises to ensure that what you are doing or receiving is still what you desire.
What do I wear to a workshop?
You do you. You can wear whatever you want. You might want to wear multiple layers so you can take clothes if you’re feeling warm.
What do I eat?
We will provide water, tea, and some snacks during the workshop. You’d like to eat something specific? Please bring it yourself.
What if I can’t come anymore?
Tickets are not eligible for a refund. You are free to give your ticket to someone else. Please let us know upfront who took over your ticket.
🍓 Your ticket includes water, tea, sodas and snacks during the workshop.
👕 Please wear comfortable clothing that you like to wear for a Shibari workshop. You do You! We will provide all necessary equipment and materials for the workshop. If you have your own ropes, feel free to bring them!
🌈 All forms are welcome at our workshop: singles, couples, friends, trios, and individuals of all genders and sexual orientations. We embrace diversity and provide an inclusive space where everyone can feel comfortable, respected, and celebrated.
