OUR
MISSION
Kinkhearted is a platform that offers introduction workshops in various aspects of kink. Our mission is to provide a safe and inclusive space for individuals and their partners to explore and learn about kink and BDSM in a respectful and consensual manner.
We offer a range of workshops designed to help guide you and or your partner through the world of kink and connect from your heart with others. Whether you are a seasoned practitioner or new to the world of kink; Kinkhearted is here to support and guide you on your journey of self-discovery and exploration in kink.
Our ethical statement:
We want to make it clear that there will never be any pressure to participate in activities that make you uncomfortable. You are welcome to attend the workshop and choose to keep your clothes on and refrain from touching others if that is your preference. Additionally, if at any point you feel uncomfortable or begin to have doubts during an exercise, you are free to skip it. Your comfort and consent are of the utmost importance to us. We will regularly check in with you during the exercises to ensure that what you are doing or receiving is still what you desire.
OUR
WORKSHOPS
CONNECTIVE BREATH: Breath in domination & submission
In this workshop, you will delve into the fascinating world of breath and power exchange dynamics. You will:
- Get a heightened awareness of your own breathing patterns
- Get a heightened awareness of your (play)partner’s breathing patterns
- Learn to observe and interpret breath
- Recognize changes in breathing patterns
- Feel what your partner needs through feeling their breath
- Learn to connect based on your partners breathing
- Learn to take care of your sub based on their breathing
We want to ensure that everyone feels safe and comfortable exploring their boundaries. We want to make it clear that this is not a breathplay (e.g. choking) workshop.
When to do this workshop
If any of the following reasons resonate with you:
- If you are interested in exploring the connection between breath, domination, and submission in a safe and consensual environment
- If you want to deepen your understanding of the intimate connection between breath, connection, and power exchange
- If you want to cultivate a heightened awareness of your partner’s breathing patterns and tailor your play to their needs
- If you want to use breath as a way to deepen connection
- You want to meet like-minded people
- You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
We find it important to provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Don’t come to our workshop if you are:
- not willing to respect other people’s boundaries
- not willing to create a safe and inclusive space
Practical information
Time: 19.00 – 22.00 (doors open: 18:45)
Group: max. 12 people
Location: Kinkhearted’s boathouse (Da Costakade, Amsterdam Old West)
Address: The address will be sent to you via email 2 days prior to the workshop.
Accessibility: The boathouse is located on the water below street level and is therefore not easily wheelchair accessible. Please let us know if you have accessibility needs or concerns.
What to bring
Food and drinks
FAQ
CONNECTIVE ROPES: Explore the Art of Kinbaku
In this workshop, you will explore the art of connective ropes and the power of slowing down to connect with your play partner. The workshop is not technical, but all about creating a deeper connection. You will learn the basics of kinbaku rope tying, and how to use ropes to drop your agenda and focus on your partner.
During this workshop, you will have the opportunity to:
- Learn the basics of kinbaku rope tying
- Explore how to slow down and connect with your partner
- Discover the importance of dropping your agenda
- Explore ways to connect when using rope
- Have fun when using ropes
- Practice rope tying and connecting with your partner in a safe and consensual environment
When to do this workshop
If any of the following reasons resonate with you:
- You are curious about exploring the art of connective ropes
- You want to learn how to create a deeper connection with your play partner
- You want to broaden your BDSM/sexy skills
- You’re looking to meet like-minded people
- You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
We find it important to provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Please do not attend if you are not willing to respect other people’s boundaries or create a safe and inclusive space.
Practical information
Time: 19.00 – 22.00 (doors open: 18:45)
Group: max. 12 people
Location: Kinkhearted’s boathouse (Da Costakade, Amsterdam Old West)
Address: The address will be sent to you via email 2 days prior to the workshop.
Accessibility: The boathouse is located on the water below street level and is therefore not easily wheelchair accessible. Please let us know if you have accessibility needs or concerns.
What to bring
Food and drinks
FAQ
SADISTIC ROPES: Explore the art of sadistic Shibari
Dive into the world of Sadistic Rope, where shibari, pleasure and pain intertwine. In this workshop you’ll learn more about pain & pleasure when doing shibari.
*More about the workshop*
Here’s the outline of the evening:
– Welcome & Introduction
– Sadistic Rope without Knots: Discover the thrill of sadistic rope play without knots.
– Sadistic Rope with Knots: Ever heard of the “Toe Mountain” or the “Guatemalan” Calf-Shin Binder? Discover how to use Shibari knots for sadistic rope play.
– Closing & Aftercare
*When to do this workshop*
If any of the following reasons resonate with you:
– You are curious about exploring the art of sadistic rope
– You are curious about pain & pleasure
– You like to try out new things and play
– You’re looking to meet like-minded people
– You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
We find it important to provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Please do not attend if you are not willing to respect other people’s boundaries or create a safe and inclusive space.
*And more*
🍓 Your ticket includes water, tea, sodas and snacks during the workshop.
👕 Please wear comfortable clothing that you like to wear for a Shibari workshop. You do You! We will provide all necessary equipment and materials for the workshop. If you have your own ropes, feel free to bring them!
🌈 All forms are welcome at our workshop: singles, couples, friends, trios, and individuals of all genders and sexual orientations. We embrace diversity and provide an inclusive space where everyone can feel comfortable, respected, and celebrated.
Practical information
Time: 20:30 -23:30 (doors open: 20:15)
Group: max. 30 people
Location: Meneer de Wit, Amsterdam
Address: Baarsjesweg 202, 1057 HS Amsterdam
Accessibility: The venue is designed to be wheelchair accessible, with a specially equipped restroom. While most areas are easily accessible, please note that there are two steps that may require assistance for wheelchair users (one entering the building and one entering the lecture room). The staff is always ready to lend a hand. Please let us know if you have accessibility needs or concerns.
What to bring
Food and drinks
FAQ
DIRTY TALK: a skill to master
In this workshop, you’ll unlock the secrets of Dirty Talk and how it can make your play more exciting. You’ll find out how words, voice, and body language can add extra spice to your play. Through fun exercises, you’ll become more confident in using sexy words, changing your voice, and expressing your desires playfully. We’ll also explore Dirty Talk in BDSM, where you can explore more ways of expressing yourself when setting the scene and playing.
Join this workshop if any of the following reasons resonate with you:
- You’re curious about kink and want to explore exciting ways of talking
- You want to learn fun ways to talk dirty with (play)partners
- You want to master dirty talk
- You turn on from talking dirty or listening to dirty talk
- You want to broaden your BDSM/sexy skills
- You’re looking to meet like-minded people
- You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
More about the workshop
Here’s what the evening looks like:
1. Introductions and Consent
– Warm welcome and setting ground rules and guidelines for the evening.
2. Understanding Dirty Talk
– Explore the psychology behind dirty talk.
– Learn how words, vocal tone, and body language can ignite desire and arousal.
3. Practical Techniques
– Learn practical techniques and dive deep into practical exercises to develop confidence in dirty talk.
4. Dirty talk in BDSM
– Discuss and practice with dirty talk in BDSM.
5. Aftercare and closing
– Aftercare, questions and closing of the evening.
Practical information
Time: 19.00 – 22.00 (doors open: 18:45)
Group: max. 12 people
Location: Kinkhearted’s boathouse (Da Costakade, Amsterdam Old West)
Address: The address will be sent to you via email 2 days prior to the workshop.
Accessibility: The boathouse is located on the water below street level and is therefore not easily wheelchair accessible. Please let us know if you have accessibility needs or concerns.
What to bring
Food and drinks
FAQ
PAIN & PLEASURE: Find pleasure in pain
In this workshop, you will explore the fascinating and complex relationship between pain and pleasure. You will:
- Explore the relationship between pain and pleasure
- Discover ways to find pleasure in pain
- Discover the masochist, sadist or sadomasochist in yourself
- Explore your boundaries and engage in self-discovery
- Explore how to enjoy giving and receiving pain safely
- Identify where pain becomes pleasurable for you
- Practice giving and receiving pain in a safe and consensual environment
We want to ensure that everyone feels safe and comfortable exploring their boundaries. We want to make it clear that the pain we work with in this workshop is limited to that which can only leave temporary marks. We will not be working with pain that involves piercing the skin, or any form of play that involves body fluids. Such as needle play, blood play, or any other activity that goes underneath the skin.
When to do this workshop
If any of the following reasons resonate with you:
- You are curious about exploring kink and BDSM in a safe and consensual environment
- You are curious to learn more about the relationship between pain & pleasure
- You are curious to discover more about how pain can bring you pleasure
- You want to broaden your BDSM / sexy skills
- You want to meet like-minded people
- You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM
We find it important to provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Don’t come to our workshop if you are:
- not willing to respect other people’s boundaries
- not willing to create a safe and inclusive space
Practical information
Time: 19.00 – 22.00 (doors open: 18:45)
Group: max. 12 people
Location: Kinkhearted’s boathouse (Da Costakade, Amsterdam Old West)
Address: The address will be sent to you via email 2 days prior to the workshop.
Accessibility: The boathouse is located on the water below street level and is therefore not easily wheelchair accessible. Please let us know if you have accessibility needs or concerns.
What to bring
Food and drinks
FAQ
ABOUT
US
VIVIAN
Vivian has a professional background as Director, Trainer, and Coach with over 10 years of experience designing and delivering training programs for various organizations, with a particular focus on leadership development and team effectiveness. Since 5 years, Vivian has explored the world of kink and tantra. As sensualist, kinkster, submissive and dominatrix. Now combining her professional knowledge and passion.
NICO
Nico is a teacher who is passionate about helping young people reach their creative potential. He worked for 10 years as a creative director at an advertising agency and has since switched careers to become a teacher. Nico has over eight years of experience in various tantra schools and has a passion for bodywork and Shibari/Kinbaku. He is trained in non-violent communication and the proud father of two beautiful teenage boys.
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