PAIN & PLEASURE: Find pleasure in pain

In this workshop, you will explore the fascinating and complex relationship between pain and pleasure. You will:

  • Explore the relationship between pain and pleasure
  • Discover ways to find pleasure in pain
  • Discover the masochist, sadist or sadomasochist in yourself
  • Explore your boundaries and engage in self-discovery
  • Explore how to enjoy giving and receiving pain safely
  • Identify where pain becomes pleasurable for you
  • Practice giving and receiving pain in a safe and consensual environment

We want to ensure that everyone feels safe and comfortable exploring their boundaries. We want to make it clear that the pain we work with in this workshop is limited to that which can only leave temporary marks. We will not be working with pain that involves piercing the skin, or any form of play that involves body fluids. Such as needle play, blood play, or any other activity that goes underneath the skin.

When to do this workshop

If any of the following reasons resonate with you:

  • You are curious about exploring kink and BDSM in a safe and consensual environment
  • You are curious to learn more about the relationship between pain & pleasure
  • You are curious to discover more about how pain can bring you pleasure
  • You want to broaden your BDSM / sexy skills
  • You want to meet like-minded people
  • You’re looking to deepen your skills and knowledge about kink and BDSM 

We find it important to  provide a safe and inclusive space during this workshop. Don’t come to our workshop if you are:

  • not willing to respect other people’s boundaries 
  • not willing to create a safe and inclusive space

Practical information

Time: 19.00 – 22.00

Location: Kinkhearted’s boathouse (Amsterdam Old West)

Address: The address will be sent to you via email 3 days prior to the workshop.

What to bring: Please wear comfortable clothing that you can move in easily. Please bring a water bottle and a towel or blanket. We will provide all necessary equipment and materials for the workshop.

Food and drinks: We will provide water, tea, and some snacks during the workshop.

Accessibility: The boathouse is located on the water below street level and is therefore not wheelchair accessible. Please let us know if you have accessibility needs or concerns.

Cancellation policy: You can’t make it? Please let us know upfront. Tickets are not eligible for a refund. You are free to give your ticket to someone else. Please let us know upfront who took over your ticket.

FAQ

Our top priority is creating a safe and consensual environment for all participants. If you have any questions or concerns about the activities involved in this workshop, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us or read more in our FAQ.

Do I have to do every exercise in a workshop?

We want to make it clear that there will never be any pressure for you to engage in any activities that you are not comfortable with. You are welcome to attend the workshop and choose to keep all your clothing on and refrain from touching anyone if that is your preference. Additionally, if at any point you feel uncomfortable participating in an exercise, you are free to sit it out. Your comfort and consent are of utmost importance to us.

What do I wear to a workshop?

You do you. You can wear whatever you want. You might want to wear multiple layers so you can take clothes if you’re feeling warm.

What do I eat?

We will provide water, tea, and some snacks during the workshop. You’d like to eat something else? Please bring it yourself.

What if I can’t come anymore?

Tickets are not eligible for a refund. You are free to give your ticket to someone else. Please let us know upfront who took over your ticket.